"Heidi had non-small cell lung cancer - diagnosed about 3 years before she died. She went through an extensive round of chemo (but told her doctor that it had to be done by January because she had a trip to the Holy Land planned, and she wasn't about to let anything interfere with it!).
Heidi went on that trip, then into remission -- taking still more trips to places like Egypt, Europe and Bali, before the cancer came back. She was planning more chemo, but had to have abdominal surgery because of a blockage (caused by the cancer) and never did recover from that, so she couldn't go back on chemo. She fought all the way, and I miss her every day."I never met Heidi, but if she was anything like her sister, then she must've been some force to be reckoned with.
There's a quote that's been appropriated by many people over the years and I'm not sure who first said it, but it rings in my ears every time I talk (or email) to anyone who's dealing with or dealt with cancer: "Adversity doesn't build character, it reveals it." As someone so emblematic of that life-affirming character, it's an honor for me to carry Heidi along with me on this year's ride.
Thank you, Doug, for riding in my mom's honor. She really was an amazing woman with a heart of gold. Her spirit will always live on and I hope you feel that spirit as you're trying to push up that last hill.
ReplyDeleteYours truly,
Karin Yehling
Not at all, Karin.
ReplyDeleteI'm honored to carry your Mom along on this year's ride.
/doug
Thank you, Doug, for riding in my sister Heidi's honor. She stubbornly fought this dreadful disease with courage I can only imagine. She is missed SO much by all that knew and loved her.
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Mary West